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Zaraz nemaye zhyttya, yake ne zminylosya by povnistyu z pochatkom povnomasshtabnoyi viyny v Ukrayini. Ale zminylosya ne lyshe nashe povsyakdennya, a y emotsiyni reaktsiyi. Use — vid strachu, tryvohy ta zlosti do pochuttya provyny y smutku — proyavlyayet′sya nastil′ky nasycheno, scho inkoly skladno uyavyty, yak uzahali mozhna daty radu tsym emotsiyam. Bo yakscho ranishe v nas buly pevni zrazky toho, yak povodytysya v kozhniy sytuatsiyi, yak reahuvaty, to zaraz usi tsi zrazky polamani, a v holovi — sutsil′nyy chaos; schodnya my bachymo rechi, yakych ne malo b isnuvaty v tsyvilizovanomu sviti.
Bud′-yaka emotsiyna reaktsiya ye normal′noyu vidpoviddyu na nenormal′ni obstavyny viyny, stverdzhuye psychoterapevt Volodymyr Stanchyshyn. My mayemo pravo vidchuvaty lyut′, mayemo pravo chotity pomsty, my mozhemo vmykaty chorno-bile myslennya i ne vidchuvaty pry ts′omu provyny. My mozhemo sumuvaty, my mozhemo plakaty stil′ky, skil′ky potribno. TSe knyzhka pro emotsiyi tsyvil′nych lyudey u tylu: pro tych, chto zalyshyvsya v Ukrayini, y tych, yaki buly zmusheni pokynuty svoyi domivky, vsich, chto volonteryt′, donatyt′ i chekaye ridnych z frontu, vsich, chto kozhen sviy den′ pochynaye z novyn ta prokydayet′sya vid spovischen′ pro povitryanu tryvohu. My ne obyraly zhyty v chas istorychnych zmin, ale viyna tse te, vid choho ne mozhna abstrahuvatysya, tomu nashe zavdannya narazi — navchytysya spravlyatysya na svoyemu osobystisnomu rivni, zhyty, aby peremohty v tsiy viyni.
